April e-news

Creating flourishing lives

Dr Suzy Green

Happy Easter! What a wonderful time to reflect on the year so far and to take a well-earned break! Easter provides us with a number of opportunities to put positive psychology to practice. Firstly, it can be a time of deepening our sense of spirituality, no matter what your religion. Secondly, it’s a good time to cultivate a sense of gratitude for our family and friends as we spend time together. Lastly, and certainly not least, it’s a perfect time to practice the art of savouring. Savouring is the awareness of pleasure and the deliberate conscious attention to the experience of pleasure. Enjoy the Easter eggs and hot cross buns!

Last month your task was to describe your “best possible self”. It’s important that this doesn’t gather dust in a pile to be filed somewhere or stays sitting in your journal only to be viewed on the rare occasions that you flick back to see how far you’ve come! Place this somewhere you will view it regularly. As I have suggested previously, visual triggers are powerful in enhancing our mindfulness around what is important to us.

Month 4 – Character Strengths

Positive Psychology is referred to as a “strengths-based psychology” which means it has a strong focus on identifying and developing people’s strengths rather than focusing solely on their weaknesses. In the early days of the Positive Psychology movement, Martin Seligman (co-founder) and Chris Peterson (another big gun in the movement) spent a significant number of hours researching character strengths and virtues across cultures and religions world-wide. Through rigorous statistical analyses they identified six virtues being wisdom, courage, humanity, justice, temperance and transcendence. They then identified 24 character strengths that sit under these core virtues. The Values in Action (VIA) Institute in the US continue to research these strengths in terms of understanding what “good character” is and how it can be measured and enhanced – see www.viastrengths.org.

A strength has been defined as “a natural capacity for behaving, thinking or feeling in a way that allows optimal functioning & performance in the pursuit of valued outcomes” (Linley & Harrington, 2006). Peterson & Seligman (2004) suggest that a “signature strength” involves authenticity ie this is the “real me” and induces a feeling of excitement and vitality while using it. Recent research has shown that the strengths of zest, gratitude, hope and love more strongly correlate with life satisfaction, whereas the strengths of prudence, patience and perseverance are strongly associated with goal success.

This Month’s Action Plan – Play to Your Strengths!

Identify your top five signature strengths by completing the VIA Strengths Inventory (www.authentichappiness.org or www.viastrengths.org). It will take about 15 minutes to complete. There is also a version for children. Spend some time considering whether you’re really using these strengths in your daily life. Also spend some time thinking about using these signature strengths in new ways. For example, if one of your signature strengths is kindness, then perform an anonymous favor for a friend or family member. If it is love of learning, then learn and use a new word every day for a week. Feel free to email me if you have any feedback on this or any other of the activities.

Next month...

I will be discussing positive thinking and the significant impact that learning to think differently can have on your emotions and behaviours.

My weaknesses... I wish I could come up with something. I'd probably have the same pause if you asked me what my strengths are. Maybe they're the same thing.
- Al Pacino


Dr Suzy Green

Visit Dr Suzy

You are receiving this email because you have consented to subscribe to Dr Suzy Green & Associates' e-newsletter. If you do not wish to receive these e-newsletters anymore, send a blank e-mail with 'UNSUBSCRIBE' as the subject to info@drsuzy.com.au. To re-subscribe, visit www.drsuzy.com.au.